I've found myself kinda 'man-juggling' at the moment. Don't know how that happened.
Actually no..sorry I'm not officially man-juggling as I'm only chatting to them online. I don't usually chat to more than one guy at a time as it all gets too much. I imagine ACTUAL man-juggling, ie dating more than one guy at a time..would be total madness.
Although, I did accidentally have sex with two guys on the same weekend once....but I don't think that counts as only one was a 'date' (on the Saturday night), the other was my yummy bonk-buddy Brad (Sunday afternoon), who unfortunately moved to London a couple of years ago. He calls occasionally.... *sigh*
Ok...sorry where was I?
..so...yep chatting to 3 guys..considering a 4th. Now I know there'll be those of you out there laughing at me as maybe that's how most people do it. Is it? Is that how it's supposed to be done? I have no idea. I just know that I have always preferred to get to know one person at at time. But I think that needs to change.
As my mate Spiffo said, "how do you know what you like, if you've got nothing to compare it to". So that's what I'm doing. And you know what? I think it might work. I should naturally gravitate towards whoever I enjoy chatting too most.
I've already deleted one guy. He wanted to be 'just friends' and didn't want any "sex or complications".
I thought this would be nice for a change. We chatted a couple of times...all very nice. However, I found that without the 'carrot' that is sex, dangling in front of my nose.......I lost interest in him very fast. My mouse seemed to keep hovering, all by itself, over towards the 'delete contact' button, like one of those pointy things on a ouija board. And then....he was gone.
So at the moment we have - 1. Mr Tall (6'7"), 2. Mr Canuck (he's Aussie/Canadian) and 3. Mr Shirtless (he he) .
No definite thoughts yet although, I think Mr Tall is a bit too much into pubs and stuff. I'm over pubs. Plus he's got very young kids....I'm over that too. Mr Canuck has a 14 year old girl (EDIT - found out since he also has a 16 yr old boy and a 4 yr old girl) and Mr Shirtless has no kids at all.
If I get too confused I think I may need to run a poll!