I mean he called me again last night (Tuesday), we spoke for over an hour and he's still not mentioned the possibility of catching up again.
WTF?
How the hell does this dating thing actually work?
I need to do me some serious research....
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so you haven't seen him since? Ok - ask him when is he picking you up to take you out for a lavish night of deliciousness and desire!! BUT it's Thursday and I dare say he will be hanging to know what your plans are for the weekend!!!
do what miss tank says - just ask him what HE is doing on the weekend!!!! whats the point in beating around the bush?? x
I go with Tank...if he doesn't mention anything by tonight (which he probably will) then you just bring it up yourself....we are modern women after all! :-)
OMG how fucked up were those responses?? see?? I'm just all over the place. yes no yes no..faark.
No Fern I haven't seen him since. He said NOTHING after the date, when he was leaving. Yeah..it's Thursday, he will probably ring me tonight :oS
Nooo EM I can't ask him. Remember he totally rejected me back in November and now I'm a bit stressed out about being rejected again.
OK Raechelle if he doesn't call tonight and ask I will call him tomorrow...but let's face it if he hasn't asked by tonight he's probably not interested. Which is annoying 'cos then he shouldn't call me and crap on for an hour on the phone ..grrrrr!
just chill out....men aren't really complicated remember that!
If he's calling obviously it appears he wants to talk to you - but if he doesn't ask to catch up well shit what a weirdo - im no good at this dating thing either!
sorry!
I used to just ask and if they're not interested well move on. XX
I hear ya on the waiting patiently wondering feelings tho.
PS: I just meant if he calls casually ask what he has planned for the weekend!!!!!
Yeah I just gotta calm the fuck down. I KNOW he likes me. He does know that I get freaked out easily if a guy is TOO full on though so maybe he's hanging back a bit. Breathe...
Yeah I'm no good at the whole dating thing - who the hell knows what the rules are anymore!!
I reckon you should play it cool though!
Hilary xx
I agree with Hilary...play it cool. He obviously wants you...he's probably playing games, and seeing who's going to cave first...***says someone who hasn't dated in 13 years...lol.. :) REMEMBER FRANKIE - YOU'VE GOT EVERYTHING HE COULD POSSIBLY WANT! As look as he wants it, he's not going anywhere. :)
OMG OK I will try to play it cool. I mean he says little things all the time that kinda imply it's a given we will see each other again, but I just want to hear it from HIM. *sigh*
Maybe he's figured you out already and he's messing with your head a little. Remember, its not his job to make you feel better about your insecurities. They are yours. And they SUCK big time, I know (I am EXACTLY the same) So RELAX. And just ask him out.... :o)
You'll be OK. Don't be afraid of rejection. You are perfect in every way. xx
Frankie - as the only man on this thread so far, as far as I know, don't forget that men are also just really bad sometimes at remembering to do stuff and then when we do remember to do it, we forget about it again... And we don't really ever mean to forget about it, but it just happens!
If he likes you, which it seems he does, and you like him, then just let it happen. Chill out with a beer or three/six - it's what we men do! ;-)
Thanks :o)
7.21pm.....
I think he don't want to give you the impression that he's only interested in getting you in bed.
A real gentleman if you ask me.
And I mean, you don't wanna look as if you're only desperate for that either, he might feel used or you might feel used.
It's personalities that counts here if it's needed to last longer than a one night stand.
:-)
Suggest a stroll on the beach/park?
Say "hey I'm going, if you are not doing anything it would be nice to have your company, I really enjoy chatting with you"
Don't freak out now, you are just doing OK.
You are great and you just gotta belief it yourself, just look at all the people on the comments who thinks so too.
See you next week ok.
Thanks Flea :o) He called and we had a really nice talk. He's very sweet (when he's not being bad). Movies tomorrow!
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