Wednesday, May 6, 2009

BB guy update



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Now..another BB Guy update.

It's all too fucking haaaaaarrrrrd!!!! Or am I just lazy?? Who knows, but I just can't be bothered at the moment. I really do think he's got a drinking problem. He called me last night and I could hardly understand what he was saying. I asked him if he'd been drinking and he said he hadn't and that he was just tired ...but I'm not f*ing stupid.
If he's got problems with alcohol or any other substance I'm just not going to be in it. I had an alcoholic father and an ex husband who needed about 6 cans a night just to get through his awful life me with and the kids and our beautiful home ...so yeah...NOT happening.
I also think he's keeping secrets. Not sure what but he avoids a lot of questions. I don't think he's still married or anything but I did ask him how long he'd been separated and he made a bit of a joke and cunningly avoided the actual answer. I don't need fresh meat. I need a guy who's single and happy with his life and gotten over whatever shit's happened previously. Ya know?
Thing is, I'm not even upset...I'm not actually - 'anything' about it. As much as I loved the whole man-hunt, I'm not fussed as to whether it works out or not. Weird huh? Major stalker crush on the guy for 7 years and now it's......."meh".

....hmmm...although, wouldn't mind a bit more of the old horizontal dancing.....

8 comments:

Kitty said...

hmmm. red flags ahoy!

so fuck him for a while and keep your emotional distance. men do it all the fucking time as it is considered a reasonable type of relationship style for them.

put the shoe on the other foot and drive it right up their arses i say.

xx

Kerry W said...

You're right...you don't need that excess (emotional) baggage!

Like I said...some more HOT SEX first then DUMP HIM! :)

Frankie said...

yes Kitty those red flags keep popping up. But the sex is definitely too good to NOT have again!

Kerry - definitely don't need it. I had some and I got over it and don't really want anyone who's still lugging it around.

KRISTIN said...

hehe... sounds like all you needed was to 'ahem' relieve the tension that has built up for what? 7 years is it? hehe... stay away from the alcoholic ones, i know exactly what that's like Frankie... not good at all! you deserve better than lies too!

Raechelle said...

If he's like this after one dance in bed...imagine what he'd be like after a few months of it...sheesh! Yeah-I'm with all of the above-just have some fun.

Frankie said...

Kristin, maybe it was. Maybe I'm over it now. But I do keep having flashbacks from Saturday night which doesn't help ;o)

Yep Raechelle, it's all too much, can't he just shut up and look nice? Geez.. he he...

Cheryl said...

I agree with Kitty, Just root him and get rid of him. Go with your gut honey, the gut is always right.
But the big question is......
Who are you going to stalk now? LOL
I have a stalker, the only prob is it is a girl and she is a fucking pain in the arse...LMAO

Frankie said...

Hmmm....Cheryl, I don't know. But, I am beginning to think there's something to this 'stalking' thing and that it could all be worthwhile after all LOL. sorry bout yours!